Towson Divorce Lawyers: Divorce Recovery After Infidelity

“Divorce recovery” is a relatively new term that addresses the crucial healing process that divorced individuals face as they make their way toward a new and better life. When a divorce is caused, at least in part, by infidelity, the betrayed spouse faces unique challenges. If you have suffered through your ex-spouse’s affair, their behavior can have a damaging effect on you if not addressed. By addressing some of these issues during your divorce recovery, you can ensure that you are starting off on the right foot in beginning your new life. Some common issues many betrayed spouses have to work through include:

Jealousy

Many people who have been betrayed can be left with an unfounded fear regarding the faithfulness of future partners. The wound can be deep and leave you feeling vulnerable for many years if not dealt with appropriately. In order to heal, one must make the conscious choice to trust their new partner each and every day. Instead of being hyper vigilant for signs of cheating, learn to trust your new partner, and remember that you are hurting yourself and your new partner by allowing irrational fears to control you.

Intimacy Avoidance

If you have been hurt, it may be a natural impulse to make yourself emotionally unavailable. Although most of us long to be connected to a special person, taking the risk and allowing yourself to be vulnerable again can be just too much for some to bear. Remember that taking a risk is necessary to form a special connection with someone.

Inability to Trust

 This is similar to jealousy or intimacy avoidance, but is broader. People who have been cheated on may lose their ability to trust themselves. They continuously question their own judgment and even what is real. This can be especially problematic if your former spouse was abusive.

Stereotyping

Often, victims of infidelity may begin thinking that all men cheat or all women lie. Allowing yourself to become jaded and bitter can prevent you from ever being able to truly love again.

Flashbacks

If someone you deeply loved and trusted was unfaithful, you probably were flooded with very strong emotions when you found out about their affair. To prevent painful flashbacks, it is crucial to deal with your feelings through the divorce recovery process instead of avoiding them altogether.

Towson Divorce Lawyers at Huesman, Jones & Miles, LLC Help Victims of Infidelity Move Forward Through Divorce in Maryland

If your spouse was unfaithful, the compassionate Towson divorce lawyers at Huesman, Jones & Miles, LLC are here to help. We have seen what infidelity can do to people, and are prepared to handle all aspects of your legal situation so that you can focus on what is truly important—healing and moving forward with your new life. To schedule a free consultation, call us at 443-589-0150 or contact us online today.

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